God is all knowing and all powerful, therefore, when He made me, He knew that I wouldn't believe in Him and I would go to hell for that. Who is at fault? It's His because, being all knowing, He knew exactly what He was doing creating me which makes my life and where I will go predetermined by him. If He didn't bother to consider what I would do by making me in this way then He is still at fault for being negligent.
You are both kinda right and kinda missing the bigger point IMO, lemme wax on you bout theology for a quick second
God(old testament) made man and woman from man with FREE WILL this was built in from day one, page 1. This is evident by him making the "apple tree" and saying dont eat from it. THAT RIGHT THERE, the apple tree metaphor was the very essence of free will being imparted into us.
This is counterintuitive for alot of people, they ask "why would God even give us the ability to sin or give us ways TO sin, seems to fly in the face of the "all benevolent idea". Stick with the story and we will get there ok, promise.
So thats old testament God, God the Father. He goes through the whole of the first half of the bible trying to work with humans before he decides its time to forgive us for being the way we are, enter Jesus, or God the son, he was made flesh on earth and sacrificed FOR US AND OUR SINS so that even though we still sined despite the fact we had the option NOT TO SIN God still found a way to have us live eternally with him, he sacrificed his only begotten Son.
So Jesus died on the cross AND WAS RESURRECTED to show how on earth we must "die and be reborn" in our faith for the Lord and his forgiveness for our sins.
The essence of Christianity at its core is the acknowledgment of sin and our failure to live up to our fathers original plans for us but accepting that and being reborn in the idea of eternal salvation DESPITE the failures and DESPITE the sin.
So yea we are always the problem and the sticking point but thats kinda the whole point, if God had wanted a bunch of perfect un sinning replicas of him he could have made that very easily, whats the point of having loving worshipers if they are FORCED to worship, its the idea of giving an intelligent species the ability to be shitty and yet they still choose to do right is what really "gets God out of bed in the morning" so to speak but thats obviously just my own thoughts on the matter and thats far from a conclusive theory.
this is all related to US politics because it says in God we trust on our money